One way to improve the happiness of both Product and Engineering groups is to change the way they communicate to be more validation-centric. Abandon the question "What do we do, now?" in favor of "How will we know when we've done the next thing?"
Anyone paying attention knows that this is a well-traveled topic, so much so that the question "How will we know when we're done?" is basically a cliché in the software industry. Nevertheless. It's my turn to say it.
Get rid of detailed instructions, descriptions, and design documents. Replace them all with acceptance criteria.
After all, what else matters? How useful is a design document that you can't use to tell whether or not you're done? If you have an instrument that tells you that, what's the value in the other documents?
If you can get good acceptance criteria - really, truly, good ones - you can drive noise out of the communication lines between Product and Engineering. It goes further than that, but fixing the (usually) broken handoff between those two organizations yields enough value on its own to justify the change.
Agreeing with this post is the easy part. Making the change is the hard part. There's a social aspect to it and a skills aspect to it.
In the latter category is a hard question:
How do we get really good acceptance criteria?More on that to come.